{"id":1768,"date":"2005-12-02T14:44:11","date_gmt":"2005-12-02T22:44:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ogre.nu\/wp\/?p=1768"},"modified":"2009-04-19T19:41:37","modified_gmt":"2009-04-20T03:41:37","slug":"i-do-not-understand-young-women-film-at-eleven","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bendwavy.org\/wp\/?p=1768","title":{"rendered":"I do not understand young women, film at eleven"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I don&#8217;t know how many times this has happened.  I&#8217;m on the phone with some chirpy Career Gal, she says something to which I say &#8220;Yes, fine,&#8221; and <em>then<\/em> she warbles &#8220;Okay??&#8221;, leaving me somewhat bewildered and impatient.<\/p>\n<p>It has been observed (alas that I failed to blog it, else I could tell you by whom) that &#8220;language is a code used only by code-breakers.&#8221;  So perhaps I have imperfectly cracked the tacit protocol of such exchanges.  Am I expected to refrain from giving my consent until it&#8217;s explicitly asked, or has the &#8220;No Means No&#8221; campaign resulted in a presumption that Yes also means no unless repeated?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don&#8217;t know how many times this has happened. I&#8217;m on the phone with some chirpy Career Gal, she says something to which I say &#8220;Yes, fine,&#8221; and then she warbles &#8220;Okay??&#8221;, leaving me somewhat bewildered and impatient. It has &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/bendwavy.org\/wp\/?p=1768\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1768","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-language"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bendwavy.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1768","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bendwavy.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bendwavy.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bendwavy.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bendwavy.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1768"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bendwavy.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1768\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2291,"href":"https:\/\/bendwavy.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1768\/revisions\/2291"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bendwavy.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1768"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bendwavy.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1768"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bendwavy.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1768"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}